Jun 20, 2023
Do you feel like your sex life took a hit as you grew
older?
In this episode of the Biohacking Superhuman Podcast, I chat with
Susan Bratton about sexual biohacking. Most women tend to let their
sex lives die off as they grow older, especially if their body
changes in ways where sex just doesn’t happen to feel the same way
that it used to. From vaginal dryness to difficulty achieving
orgasms, Susan talks about the different sexual rejuvenation
treatments and protocols women can try out so that they can
continue to enjoy intimacy with their partners even as their bodies
change over time.
We also chat about the importance of cultivating intimacy with a
partner that you have been with for a long time. Susan shares her
sex bucket list, among other tools, and explains how this tool can
help light up that spark that may have been dormant between you and
your partner for a while.
Susan Bratton is an Intimacy Wellness Expert, Sexual Bio-Hacker,
and self-proclaimed
“Orgasmanaut”,
who is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong
intimacy and passion. She’s a best-selling author and publisher of
44 books and programs including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship
Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex Ed™, The Passion
Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot.
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What we discuss:
00:02:24: Is sex good for you?
00:07:16: What does Susan think of sexual biohacking?
00:11:34: What is the difference between intimacy and
sex?
00:22:17: Is the sex bucket list only for couples?
00:26:05: Why does it take longer for women to be ready to
go?
00:33:30: Why do women experience vaginal dryness?
00:40:10: What sexual rejuvenation treatments does Susan
recommend?
00:44:30: How can O shots help?
00:48:35: What is Orgasmic Cross-Training?
00:52:14: Where to learn more about Susan?
Key Takeaways:
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One of the most common complaints women make once they reach
menopause is that nothing feels good when it comes to love-making.
The reason? They just can’t get aroused like they used to. Given
that your vagina is a muscle and not a gland, it can’t lubricate
itself without blood flow. Your vaginal tissue requires blood flow
to seep through the layers of its tissue to wet the lining. But
over time, as women reach menopause, the tissue thins out and tends
to dry up. Thus, the importance of doing the work to bring blood
flow back to your pelvic bowl - especially as you get
older.
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The #1 reason why women don’t enjoy sex is that they’re engaging in
intercourse BEFORE their bodies are properly prepared for it! See,
men tend to be aroused very quickly and are ready for intercourse
within a few minutes of foreplay. On the other hand, women need an
average of 20 to 30 minutes of consistent stimulation to be fully
aroused. As a result, this makes sex less enjoyable as women engage
in intercourse BEFORE enough time has gone by to ensure adequate
blood flow has made its way toward their vaginal tissue - which
would properly lubricate their vagina. And as women get older and
the vaginal tissue thins out, it takes even more time to get
aroused - making intercourse more painful than it used to be if
they rush it.
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Most women have been having sex like a dude most of their lives if
not all of their lives. While it's something that women don’t
realize early on in their sex life, it becomes a lot more apparent
after menopause when their bodies change.